This is a weekend when it’s tough to be single. If you’re single “again” it can be even worse. Although I’m happily married now, I can remember observing “Black Wednesday” (or Thursday, or whatever day February 14 hit that year) with my single friends. We’d wear black, do something fun, and remind each other that being without a romantic relationship didn’t mean being unloved. We had each other and that meant something! We took care of each other so none of us had to feel alone or left out.
Regardless of your relationship status, you can make your Valentine’s Day and somebody else’s a little happier if you Love Your Neighbor.
Who Is My Neighbor?
You may have read in Luke 10:25-37 how Jesus commanded us to love our neighbors and then illustrated what that meant. There are so many hurting people around us although many have become very skilled at hiding the pain. If you are looking for a way to share some love with your neighbor this Valentine’s Day, may I offer a few ideas?
Suggestions for Loving Your Neighbor
- Make a photo album or memory box for a family member or help that family member assemble an album. Spend time looking at the pictures and ask questions. You may learn something fun or interesting about your family!
- Babysit your sibling’s kids so Mom & Dad can enjoy a meal someplace that doesn’t have a cartoon character mascot. Keep the kids busy making and playing games with a set of giant dice like these.
- Make special flowers (instructions here) or other gifts (maybe candy bouquets like these or these) for widowed people in your church or community. More importantly, visit and let them share memories.
- Buy or make a meal (look here for recipes) for a single parent or give a gift card to take the kids to dinner.
- Provide a helpful gift for a needy child: a red hat & mittens, a cute shirt, themed school supplies, or Valentine socks would be both fun and practical.
- Serve others: Help prepare and serve a meal at a soup kitchen, donate clothes or supplies to a homeless shelter or pregnancy resource center, or make a special donation to missionaries who are sharing the love of Christ around the world.
- Have Share the Love Day: Do any of the above with a friend or group of friends who don’t have a “special someone” with whom to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Skip the black and wear pink or red instead, go out to eat or pitch in snacks, and celebrate your friendship.
I’ve often found that the best way to lift my spirits is to do something for somebody else and that giving love is the best way to get some in return. You have something good to give…your time, your prayers, your listening ear, and your friendship are valuable. However and with whomever you observe Valentine’s Day, I hope it is filled with blessings and love!
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Update: This post was shared at the Valentine’s Link Party.